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Tips for Reading More: Some Insights from My Journey

Last week, I shared that I’m on a journey to read more as a way of reconnecting to something that I love and used to do a lot of. I shared this on Instagram and asked my followers a few questions – and got some great insight about how much people are reading and tips for reading more.

When I asked people to share tips on reading more, I got A LOT of responses, but here’s a quick summary:

  • Many people read audiobooks during their commute, while working out, or during other spaces where they may have to wait or need to fill time (e.g.: in the line at the grocery store, waiting for an appointment, etc).
  • People who read frequently always have books available to read (audiobooks, e-readers/e-reading apps).
  • People aren’t afraid to put down a book they don’t like. In some cases, they will return to it later, and in others – not at all.
  • There were also quite a few people who utilized the Libby app to access books through their local library and listen to them or have them on their e-readers/e-reading apps.

What I’m learning about all of this as I continue on my quest to read more:

  • I should probably give audiobooks a try. I generally listen to podcasts when driving, so I don’t know that the leap from podcasts to audiobooks is huge. That said, I’ll probably have to be more careful about it, because I am rarely in the car by myself – and I try to be mindful of the media that my kids consume.
  • I can do better about having books readily available to read (keeping my Kindle with me, using the Kindle app on my phone). Honestly, there’s no excuse here. I have a Kindle, I have the Kindle app on my phone – I have just chosen to use the time to mindlessly scroll or do other things. Here’s to readjusting habits towards what really matters.
  • It’s okay to NOT finish a book. I feel particularly guilty about this – and will sometimes struggle through a book or will stop reading altogether. I’m not sure of the root of this feeling – and I’m not even sure that it’s something to feel guilty about. That said, I believe one way that I can feel less guilty is by already having something else queued up to read so that when I decide a book isn’t for me, I already have something else ready to try.

And as a general accountability update – I’m still reading The Davenports, and am currently about 65% through it! I’ve been reading during short breaks and before bed! Two things I’d like to know: What are you reading right now and would anyone be interested in a book club?

Thanks for being on this journey with me!

Until next time – be encouraged! Peace and blessings!


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Take the Picture

The holiday season is upon us and as you gather with friends and family, I want to encourage you to enjoy each moment and take the picture. 

Actually, take ALL the pictures. The holiday pajamas photos. The random selfies. The silly faces. Cooking together in the kitchen. Watching movies. Opening presents and playing games. Get photos of everyone, doing everything.

When my dad passed away, one of the (many) things that was challenging was finding pictures of him. He didn’t like taking pictures, and due to various life circumstances, we were unable to locate the ones we did remember having. Until recently, I only had one photo in my possession of me with my dad and a few others that had been saved on my phone.

The pain of his sudden death was compounded by the fact that I had almost no physical representation that he existed. And as we get older, the way we remember things changes. Photos help to align what’s in our minds with what’s in our hearts.

So friends, take the pictures. All of them. Because the moments don’t last, but the memories and the photos do.

Until next time- be encouraged! Peace and blessings!