life beyond the well…


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Life Matters.

I read a few blogs each day.  It helps to satisfy my hunger for reading, despite the lack of time that I have to actually read books other than the Bible and what I’m reading for my classes.  I find it to be a nice stress reliever; and for some blogs that I have been reading for years, I almost feel like I know the author.

I guess I kinda do know the authors.  After years of reading about their successes, their struggles, their faith, their loves, their losses, their joy, their pain…I kinda do know them.  And even though I only “know” them through what they write, that doesn’t change the fact that I feel connected to them; that their words and their thoughts have moved me to pray, to change, to seek, to love, to grow.

So, my heart has been heavy over the past week or so because two of the bloggers that I read regularly have both lost their sisters.  They aren’t related, but the stories of their losses are very similar.  And because I feel like I “know” them, my heart aches for them.

As I’ve read their blogs through this difficult time, what resonates to me is that life matters.  All of it matters.  All the time. And it matters that much more because we don’t know how much time we have left.

So much of life is spent focused on things that don’t matter: pleasing people we don’t really care about, acquiring things that we will only leave behind, worried about things that are really of very little significance.  I’m so guilty of it.  I’ve wasted so much of my life focused on the wrong things that don’t really matter.  My life matters.  How I spend my time matters.  Choosing to value people over things matters.  Looking for the opportunity to always do right by others matters.  Seeking each opportunity to make a memory instead of an excuse matters.  Taking every chance possible to leave each person, place, and thing that I encounter better than I found it matters.  Loving people beyond their faults matters.  Forgiveness matters.  Investing in my family matters.  Leaving a legacy of faith and love matters.  Life matters.

While I am praying for my dear blog friends, I am also praying that God “teach us to number our days” so that we can fully understand and execute wisdom in life through acting in grace, humility, love and faith.

Life matters.  Live wisely.  Love freely.

Be encouraged!


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Overwhelmingly Thankful

This has been a whirlwind year.  I can hardly believe that it’s the end of November, and that soon 2013 will be here. As I reflect on the year, there’s so much that I have to be grateful for.

My life has changed dramatically this year. I have moved to a new (but familiar) place. I left my job and started something new. I got married. All incredibly wonderful things that have made 2012 a year of change and transition, setting me up on the path to truly move forward in 2013.

None of that could be possible without the love, support, and encouragement of some really good people. Preacher man (the hubs) and I always reflect about this around the thought of “people don’t have to be nice and they don’t have to be nice to you.” When I think of how I’ve experienced both people being nice and people being nice to me, it’s overwhelming.

This year I have truly witnessed and benefitted from people giving so unselfishly and sacrificially. So much so that all I can say is thank you, which is right, but also seems to be so horribly inadequate. But the truth is, I could NEVER repay what was offered and provided to me. There’s not a price you can put on some things, and even if I tried, it wouldn’t be a full representation of the gratitude I feel.

I am so overwhelmingly thankful to God for all these blessings that He has continued to provide for me and my family.  And for all of those who have blessed, encouraged, loved, and supported me this year; my prayer is that God continue to bless you and keep you, and that you are granted favor in all that you do.

Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you, Lord, for all you’ve done for me!

“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” – Numbers 6:24-26