As the new year comes in, I’ve seen my social media feeds flooded with people proclaiming their plans to leave behind people who they feel no longer need to be a part of their lives. I believe that’s a necessary part of life- everyone isn’t designated to be with you for the duration. Some relationships have expiration dates, and we can literally make ourselves sick when we continue to indulge in those relationships after they’ve reached that point.
So, I get it. I totally understand that you want to (and need to) let people go. However, I think there’s another side of this that often gets overlooked- are we celebrating those who are still with us? Have we expressed our gratitude to those who have held us down over the past year(s)? Have we taken the time to let them know how much we appreciate their friendship and their loyalty?
There are some people who have been with me since way back. Since before I could comfortably walk in heels, since before I knew how to wrap my hair and apply makeup; back to the time where I was happiest rocking a hoodie and some fresh sneakers. They’ve been with me and they’ve watched me grow. They’ve let me change. They held me when I cried from brokenness, and they celebrated with me as I some of my dreams came true. They might not be in every physical picture, but the photostream in my mind is full of moments where they are present.
I know that you have people like that in your life. I’m sure that as you read this, you immediately thought of 2-3 people who fit the bill. My hope is that you’ll take some time to let them know how much you appreciate them for staying with you. Cheers to a great 2014 with the people who helped you make it this far!
Be encouraged! Peace and Blessings!